Hakim 17 months

Selamat Tahun Baru..semoga tahun ini lebih baik dari yang sebelumnya

 a lil bit late to wish you guys rite..but its bettter late than never =)

well..penghujung akhir tahun 2012 adalah sangat tidak produktif buat kami

kerana both me and hubby mc selama dua minggu kerana sakit mata

bermula dengan Hakim..pestu jangkit kat saye..then husband..

so we were on MC till 2.01.2013

mula2 MC mmg sronot..dapat stay umah..jaga anak

but bile mate bengkak asik berair je..sungguh tak selesa

seb baek Hakim kne kejap je..mild conjunctivitis

5 hari dah sembuh..dan seriously..he behaved well..despite sakit mata

dia still aktif..tak merengek 

mak nye yg over sampai stress gile sbb tak bleh kuar rumah..tak bleh masak..tak bleh tgk screen lama2

huhuhu

dunt you ever wish to get conjunctivits any more!

skang mata dah ok..cume still blurr..tak bleh nak focus

bile jumpe doc..dia ckp normal..and soh continue lagi dgn streoid eye-drop

saya plak dah 50-50 nak pakai ke idak

sbb anything yang streoid..sepatutnye tak bleh pakai lama2..kan?

perkembangan Hakim:

I am a bit worried with his development..sbb it seems a bit delayed

ya Allah..sesungguhnya saya buntu..adakah saya terlebih concerned? or in a denial?

he doesnt talk..he didnt walked..he doesnt know how to use spoon..he doesnt know how to munch..

we met several paeds to share our worries

and opinion varies

some said he has autism

some said he has general developement delay and asked us to register him as oku (i was offended!)

and this one nice paed said that the fact that he can walk out rule everything..he is just taking his time..and the speech will come

and this paed also said that the best speech "guru" for him is his friends..so he suggested that we try to send Hakim to a good day care. so that he can mix around, has friends, build his confidence and his vocabs.

it is not an easy task for us..to think what is the best for Hakim..

owh ye..Hakim started walking early december..when he was 16 months

tak terkata gembiranya hati kami berdua..and proud as well..

yes we are always proud of him

sekarang ni he knows how to express his feeling..

especially bila dia marah..

he knows how to throw tantrum..

sudah pandai meniarap di lantai dan menangis tercebik2 bila tidak di layan..

and we bought him his abc laptop

he loves listening to it..cuma untuk menekan every single letters

haruslah dia cari dan tarik jari umi nya soh tekan

dia sendiri tanak tekan..haihhh anak

hari tu masuk camp latihan commando kejap

so saya ajar dia cara nak turun dari sofa (sbb dia dah pandai panjat sofa tp tak reti turun..huhu)

lagipon paed said he has to build his muscle by doing exercise

so after 10 kali naik turun sofa..he got it

dah reti turun sendiri..well done my boy! 

dan tak brenti pulak dia main panjat turun sofa..huhu

i miss you, Hakim.